We ended 2013, the 150thanniversary of the signing of the Emancipation Proclamation a year in which one of the most popular movies, "12 Years a Slave," chronicled the horrors of slavery in Louisiana with Ani DiFranco huffily canceling her plan to host a "Righteous Retreat" for artists at Nottaway Plantation in New Orleans. That, ladies and gentlemen, sums up your year in race. I understand that most white people never have to think beyond notions of the idyllic and pastoral when it comes to plantations. That these places continue to represent sites of untold horror, violence and humiliation for black people is the very kind of knowledge against which white privilege inoculates.
The whole point of being white is that you are never supposed to feel uncomfortable in replica cheap ray bans space. To the moon and back, the world is yours. This past year, "pure" white space has been procured and subsequently sanctified through the precious spilled blood of black bodies Trayvon Martin, who got no justice; Jonathan Ferrell, who asked for help in the wrong neighborhood; Renisha McBride, who did the cheap wholesale ray bans same.
In her faux pology, which doubled as a notice of cancellation, DiFranco claimed to "get it." But from her passive aggressive chastisement and her choice to accuse her naysayers on social media of engaging in "high velocity bitterness," she obviously doesn't really get it. She acknowledged that "the pain of slavery is real and runs very deep and very wide," but saw as "very unfortunate" "what many have chosen to do with that pain."
No doubt, Ani discovered this week, that social media is no country for white women's foolishness buy fake ray ban sunglasses on race. Unfortunately for her, she chose to launch this retreat at the same time that another unfortunate white feminist soul launched a twitter campaign called stopblamingwhitewomenweneedunity. And after a year of looking at replica ray ban sunglasses Miley Cyrus' non twerking ass, everyone has had enough.
But also, here's the thing: Sometimes I, too, cringe at the level of hatred and hateration that gets spewed at folks in social media. As the actress Rashida Jones said of Twitter recently, it often feels like a bad neighborhood where everybody is spoiling for a fight.
Indeed it does. But I also know that "bad neighborhood" is not a race neutral term, any more fake ray bans than "plantation" is. They both conjure up images of utterly abject brown bodies.
While reading DiFranco's defensive response, I was forced to work through my own feelings of aversion to the warp speed attacks that happen on Twitter. I realized that social media fake ray ban sunglasses shows us how unwell we are as country; it shows particularly as it relates to battles over race that wounds run deep. And in a post racial moment that has been most wily in its particular ability to strip us of adequate language to talk about the persistence of racism, people of color have taken to social media wholesale cheap ray ban sunglasses Twitter, Tumblr, blogs as a swift corrective to this farcical American foray into politeness.
We are wounded. Shit. And anger feels like a safer emotion than pain. So we are letting our pain, which shows up most readily as righteous rage, hang out boldly alongside our incisive, eloquent critique.
How could we not be in pain?
We celebrated the 50thanniversary of the March on Washington, just a few short weeks after the Supreme Court gutted the enforcement provisions of the Voting Rights Act. We watched helplessly as a nearly all white jury convicted Trayvon Martin's killer of wholesale ray ban sunglasses no crimes. We saw black people's long struggle to freely patronize retail outlets of their choice gutted by several high profile instances of "shop and frisk." We lost Hadiya Pendleton and Renisha McBride and Jonathan Ferrell ray ban sunglasses replica this year. And Marissa Alexander spent most of this year in jail. Senate, a new Beyonc album.
It seems we went two steps forward and three steps back in most instances, only to end the year debating about getting righteous on a plantation.
When I think about my own first experience visiting a plantation in South Louisiana for a class "heritage trip" I remember discomfort coursing through my 12 year old body, whispering to the three other black kids on a trip with more than 70 students about the dishonest way they talkedabout slavery, the way they referred to the "servants' quarters" out back, the fact those were not a part of the tour.
The four of us stuck together for the rest of the trip. Shared alterity often has that effect.
Ani DiFranco's retreat brought out the wholesale ray bans righteous ire and indignation of black folks and she couldn't deal. She couldn't recognize that "our pain" is not "her pain." But to put it like Jesse Jackson might, if we wanna deal and we wanna heal then we have got to get real.
In fact, that's the one truth I know for sure at the end of 2013: If we want to be righteous on race, then we've got to get real. That's all there is to it.